You Decide.

I dont know how many weeks of blogging I have missed. I apologise. I have been doing alot of things and have been super busy.

Now.

I do a thing. It is a great thing. It is a very important thing. It is a thing that not everyone likes. It is called what I want. Doing things YOUR way to YOUR standards is ridiculously important. Being your own person with your own opinions and likes and dislikes is so important that it is one of the few things that truly define you. There are a whole variety of things that people think define you, but dont. For example your hair colour, your skill levels, or your sexual orientation. There are things that are a part of you, and things that define you.

To make that make sense, think of it like this. All the little things like your eye colour, height and weight are like a hunk of rock. They are all the facts and what you are stuck with whether you like it or not. But what carves that rock is your favourite bands, the people you hang out with, and the things that you do when you have nothing to do. You are what you stand up for, what you have faith in, and the song that your soul sings. You cannot control how tall you are, or how long your arms are, or who your family is. You may not get to choose the solid bricks of what life is. But what you do get to choose is how you place those bricks, and what you choose to create. Do you choose to build your bricks into a house, or a wall? Are you using them to create, or destroy? Because life is life. It is insane and crazy and unfathomable. But how you play your cards is up to you. Either you decide, or fate decides. But dont let other people decide and rule your life. At the end of the day, do YOU love your life? Do YOU love the people that you are with? Do you fall asleep with a dream, and wake up with a goal? If you arent happy with your life, change it. Dont wait for me to tell you or your friends to tell you or your pastor to tell you. Making your own choices and being your own person is so important because no matter what, YOUR choices define YOUR life.

Have your own failures. Have your flops and have your falls. Because at the end of it, you will have your own successes. You need to be able to say at the end of the day, you were the person who created your life.

Anyway my laptop is dying got to go ahhh

The Socially Awkward, AKA Melissa xx